La durata della separazione varia da consensuale (fino a 4 mesi) e giudiziale (fino a 10 anni) e così variano i costi da € 800,00 a € 3500.00 for the first and € 1,000.00 to € 10,000.00 and over in the second.
If you add the costs of maintaining and food on average in the presence of a former spouse and "n" children account for € 630.00 months http://www.papaseparatiliguria.it/?p=65 (not including the so-called extraordinary expenses) the cost becomes even a ten-year loan from € 70,000.00 and jumps to the end of which unfortunately is not a home because, inter alia, one parent, usually the house is removed .... not always, however, the bill of the lawyer is the most expensive part of the situation because there are at least three ways of reducing incidence:
- Legal aid: Each province has a list at the Chamber of the Forensic lawyers able to provide legal aid where the applicant proves to have an income below a certain value (€ 9723.00 ) http://www.avvocati.rimini.it/gratuito_patrocinio/elenco_avvocati.asp
- Pact contingency fee Bersani Decree Law 248/2006 http://www .camera.it/parlam/leggi/06248l.htm
- Insurance for legal protection and legal expenses for which no indicate any links as we must not trade any in particular, but you know that they exist.
Warning, it is not over yet, because if the affair separative, it is really complicated, are brought into play a host of other professionals: psychologists and two acronyms CTU and CTP respectively Technical Consultant Office and expert witnesses: the CTU is appointed by the court, the CTP by the parties. The CTU expressed (or should) a non-partisan opinion to "help" the court to bring about their judgments the CTP, end of the world advocate the part that pays for highlighting, glossing, changing sometimes the results of the CTU. All with the formal aim of "clarity" and achieve the result often obvious "confusion." The costs in this case varies from € 20.00 to € 95.00 per hour according to the tables for which the order of psychologists, it is useful to remember, the Bersani law is not valid .. http://www.psy.it/tariffario.html .
In the general confusion of the moment, and with a good stock of mermorie on television, someone might even come to mind to contact an authorized investigation to discover and document things that are absolutely unnecessary and irrelevant to the court but very useful to ' ego and therefore also expensive: the board è di evitare di farlo,in caso avverso, prevedete un ulteriore aggravio di costi variabile da qualche centinaia a diverse migliaia di euro.
In corso d'opera e nelle situazioni più complesse in cui sono presenti in campo molti attori ogniuno - lo ribadirò fino alla nausa - perseguendo un suo scopo, nessuno con in mente e nel cuore quello che solo un genitore può avere del bene dei suoi figli. In corso d'opera - si diceva - può succedere che ci si trovi a dover fare i conti con i Servizi Sociali , e può altresì succedere che si inneschino con questi, situazioni di conflitto che il legale dovrebbe mediare senza mai smettere di perorare la causa del proprio cliente. In alcuni casi, mediare non serves and must affronatare the problem, even in court, if necessary. One thing that usually prevents the lawyer to do, even to the detriment of his client, is to address the Social Services .... why? The reason is easily understood if one considers that the legal work that deals with family law, has to interact with these skills often operating as a monopoly; come into direct conflict with them, even when necessary in the interests of his client, without prejudice to the lawyer the possibility of dialogue in all other circumstances of work. This prejudice the interests of the client? sometimes, and it is useful to take account . Not all lawyers are thinking in those terms, but as the event above is far from remote, it is worth considering.
the indirect costs of separate practical, that is those who can not or are not always directly on the parties reversed, costiuiscono social costs, ie costs which the Company shall pay the full payment of taxes: These include The cost of the Court, the cost of Social Services, if required, etc. .. etc. ..
recap and no need to do the calculations , breaking up is very expensive in economic terms and very much emotional and psychological in moral terms: who pay the highest price are always the children beyond the chatter and formalisms, absorb in full and without the mental capacity to mediate typical adult, the entire load of bickering that characterizes the separation: in this case the level of "pain" Specifically, it is decided and paid more or less consciously by the parents with their actions and every word.
no morality, everything changes, but even love can end the marriage, cohabitation and children are not contracts and assets to be solved in common: a few ounces of patience, an ounce of clarity and sincerity among the future "ex" however painful it may be, risparmierebbe a tutti sofferenze e rancori infiniti: quando si parla di divorzio inevitabilmente si finisce per parlare di "DIVORZIFICIO" perchè questa è una vera e propria filiera che non conosce crisi: ricordate però che:
- A tutti i professionisti della separazione, avvocati familiaristi, psicologi, assistenti sociali, anche ai migliori, non interessa assolutamente nulla, in termini etici, dei contenuti della vostra esistenza in quanto per loro, voi siete LAVORO.
- Ogni centesimo investito su questa filiera è tolto ai vostri figli e così ogni energia spesa a litigare è tolta irrimediabilmente ai vostri figli ed inquina la loro vita per sempre con il germe più difficult to eradicate: the selfishness.
- In a legal conflict between parents, beyond the court findings, there is never a winner: there are only different numbers of dead and wounded on each side.
- No need to go before the judge to separate, you can choose the path of dialogue, do it together, with respect, keeping in mind the good of their children and perhaps with the help of a family mediator : eventually be approved by the court to what has already been decided with great saving pain, time and money.
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